Question by JessieBears: I have to tell my friends I am moving across the country. Advice?
I know this is going to be long but i think my understanding my life story is important if i want good advice.
This is not the first time I have moved. Its the 6th time, actually. In fourth grade I moved from Washington (state) to Mississippi and hated it. I spent four years counting the days until we moved again (the longest I had ever lived anywhere). In late April my parents told me we would most likely move to Florida. Even though I wanted to move north again I was ecstatic to get out of small town South. We couldn’t tell anyone because of my father’s position in the community. (His job is why we move all the time anyway). Then around the end July (I went all that time keeping the secret) the Florida thing fell through and my dad began looking for another job. He ended up getting something in Pennsylvania. School started on August 6th but we still couldn’t tell anyone. I was in 8th grade and went to the first two days of school until my dad calls. Pack your stuff, you’re getting on a plane tomorrow to pick out a school in Pennsylvania before school starts (It didn’t start until August 29th there.) While we have disappeared off the face of the earth and are half the country away touring schools, dad calls again. He made the announcement his company and we have to call all of our friends from the hotel and tell them we are moving to Pennsylvania in two weeks (we flew back after a week picking out schools, spent a week in mississippi, then left for good). It was really sad but I got over it fast because I was getting my dream. we were moving to a good sized city within driving distance of New York, Boston, and Washington D.C. Now I have lived in PA for a year and a few months. I love it here so much. I love my school and my friends, my house, the whole freakin state of Pennsylvania. I am so happy. My parents told my sister and I we would graduate high school here. I am a freshman right now. Unfortunately, my dads job isn’t working out. He took a job in a small town in Georgia. The good news is, my sister is a junior in high school and they aren’t going to make her transfer. So my mom, she, and I will stay here until she graduates, I will finish freshman and sophomore year here at my school. Then I have to move to Georgia and spend my junior and senior year at this small (60 kids in my grade. yuck!) preppy school in hicktown, Georgia. I’m really upset about it. I’m used to moving, I’ve been to nine different schools already and 6 states so I’m not that concerned about making new friends or anything. Its just that I love it here so much and I love my school (200 kids in my grade)
Now I have to tell my friends and its bringing back bad memories of last time. This will be easier because I have all the time in the world. My sister isn’t telling anyone because it won’t affect her or them. I got the ok to tell people last week and I just can’t do it. But keeping the secret is stressing me out and I don’t want to have to go months like last time. I also get to spend almost two more years here. But, its harder because I really don’t want to leave.
I thought I would call everyone one at a time this weekend but I really don’t want to. and i can’t just tell them at school. But I can’t call every single person I know, I’m going to have to tell some of them at school and people are going to talk and stuff. What should I do?
no offense to anyone who lives in the South, the only reason I hate the South is that I am a northern girl.

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Answer by Alicia Nelson
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